At the hospital, they said that we would be given a number and could watch a giant electronic tote board, following our loved ones as they progressed from preop to op to postop like good little lambs.
It was 4:50 am, and the girl behind the computer was beautiful–blond and chipper and young and almost chirping. We were her first. This morning? No, ever. She was just out of training, so alive. Unbeaten.
She checked Steve in, then led us upstairs and told us about the tote board as we stood in front of it. I had his number clutched in my hand, and my hand was sweating around it. I wondered how fast the ink would be, how blue my hand when I peeled it back, but I shouldn’t have worried. It was legible, oh so neat writing, with fat numbers. No little hearts to dot an i because there was no i at all, just 8s like bulbous snowmen, 9s with a clever hook in the tail.
And the board didn’t work.
You could watch us all, drifting like gulls, looking to find and point and cry “mine!” but left staring at three lonely numbers that never changed. 11 am one said. 1:34 pm. 5:16. Who were these people, kept on the board all night, or all weekend, or always? They were the teasers, telling us what could be if the hospital chose. This is what we could know.
5 am. 6. 7. I told other gulls that the board wasn’t working. They’d stare at their paper and up. Down and up. My news was greeted with an oh, sad, defeated, and they’d slouch back to a seat.
But I stood there. Well, paced there is more accurate. Around and around like a tetherball. “It’s not working. Been here since 5. Not working. Hasn’t changed.” All we like sheep. Wooly. Confused. Bleating.